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Treatments for Women Index PageClick the links below for information on Treatments for the following problems:
Women's sexual problems are often considered either too complicated to try to resolve or simply 'one of those things' which a woman is supposed to put up with. The fact is that painful sex or the inability to orgasm can be successfully resolved through supportive Interactive Sexual Healing.
Women who visit us for help can be assured that they will be treated with the utmost sensitivity and dignity and with complete confidence.
The
Power of The Feminine Way
Men
and women have been in conflict for thousands of years.
It is time for us to end the gender wars and pull together to solve the
problems that threaten our existence on Earth.
We must not continue to blame each other and act out our deep hurts in
the form of rejection and abuse. We
are like two kids fighting while their house burns down, who don’t seem to
notice that their lives are in danger because they are so caught up in winning
and gaining control. Low
self-esteem is the root of such dysfunctional behaviour.
Men and women in conflict increase the cycle of low self-esteem as they
wound each other. The human psyche
has it’s own way of fighting for survival and growth.
If a loved one has gravely hurt us, especially when we were young
children or teens, we act to correct that hurt and gain some feeling of mastery
over the source of pain. That is
our nature. No one accepts hurtful
experiences without some internal shift that leads to consequent behaviour as
well as altered perceptions. In
writing about female sexuality, I am addressing one very deep source of hurtful
experiences for both men and women. I
will explore how sex has become disowned in women.
Our sexuality, which should be a source of self-esteem, is distorted by
internal pain. This leads to
repressed desire and many other sexual difficulties. I
suspect that men and women have been angry at each other for a very long time
because what should be healing and life-affirming is not.
What should be connecting us to our Life Force and renewing our energy
often does not do so. Yet, we can
reclaim the promise of our sexuality. While
the feminine experience is largely missing in modern adult sexual imagery, it
was abundantly portrayed as long as 30,000 years ago.
These ancient woman-positive cultures have a message about sexuality that
we can learn from today. I
am focusing on sexuality because it has been my field of study for more than 25
years. I hope to avoid playing
“mine is better than yours” like the kids in the burning house.
Yet, it is time to stop viewing woman’s sexuality as defective.
It is time to stop using male yardstick to judge the adequacy of the
female sexual response. A solid
base of sexual self-esteem can only come from a truly female model of sexuality.
When we can validate female sexual responses, fluctuating desires, and
unique rhythms – from a female point of view – sexual healing will come from
within. When
women are healed of their sexual scars, the sexes can meet as true partners,
each with unique power and wisdom. Sexual
synchronicity creates unimaginable healing – healing for the souls of the
individuals involved, their families, and the earth.
I believe that this is what we are all searching for. -
Linda E. Savage, Ph.D. Vista, CA -
US Sexologist -
Author of “Reclaiming
Goddess Sexuality”
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