Letters from Clients

Dear David and Jane, I am terribly sorry for being so late to thank you for everything you have done but my life has been so incredibly different! After completion of the course my life did change diversely. As I have become positive about my own sexual performance somehow it bought up my confidence in general. I have taken on the sort of opportunities that I used to turn down because of nothing more than my own negativity (if I look back now). I have been very busy and feeling ever so good about myself...

...I feel that I now have the knowledge of the route to self control I also feel very grateful that you have opened my eyes to the fact that I am not alone in this situation and also would like to thank you and your assistant for the help and understanding you both showed towards me and the sensitive way in which you broach this delicate subject...

...Firstly I would like to thank you and your staff for your professional approach; from the moment your secretary welcomed me until I left I felt at ease throughout my appointment. Driving home my mind was a swirl, I felt a different person. If only I’d known help was less than two hours away I’d have contacted you years ago...

...First of all thank you for taking me onto this course. I never thought that I would have an experience like which I had. My surrogate partner was very friendly, very nice, understanding, co-operative, patient and wonderful. She is an extraordinary and exceptional girl. Thanks again for guiding me to enrol onto your course...

...I don’t think you could improve it even if you wanted to. Everything was excellent including the kindness of my surrogate partner...

...Just a line to thank you once again for all your help, I found your professional approach to your work enormously reassuring and this, combined with your obvious caring nature, made it much easier to deal with the problem I came to see you about. I am amazed, and obviously delighted, that I am ‘cured’ in such a short time and only wish that I had known about your work years ago. I should have no hesitation in recommending any man with similar problems to come and consult you...

...I am pleased to say that my love life has improved dramatically - so much so that I can say that I positively enjoy it! On top of that I’ve taken control of a few other things - a new job and an aeroplane! Thanks to you and to all concerned...

...What really made me realise what I’ve been missing all these years was the experience of lying close together and feeling her body against mine as we gently stroked each other and chatted about this and that after making love. Interestingly I think it confirmed what I’ve long suspected - that I need to respond to someone on more than just the narrowly physical level if it is to mean everything to me. I’m now keener than ever to find someone to share my life with (and very definitely my bed!)...

...I believe that Surrogate Partner Therapy (SPT) is probably one of the most important changes that I have made in my life. Without SPT I don't think I could have overcome my problem, it has given me so much more self-confidence and the courage to enter into a relationship without the fear of failure in the sexual aspect of the relationship...

....Early on SPT seemed a little awkward for me but as the steps passed it seemed more natural and the gradual approach fitted into place. I understood why some of the things I wanted to rush hadn’t been rushed. I liked the combination of counseling and practical exercises and I left with a very positive view of SPT...

...The most important thing for me about SPT was losing my ‘fear of failure’; being in an environment and with a person where it was OK to try and succeed or get it wrong and to try again. Being able to relive past problems and accept them...

... I felt liberated, enjoyable and entertaining! After the sessions I left feeling lighter than when I arrived. Although I originally entered Therapy because of sexual dysfunction my whole lifestyle has changed for the better.

...100% wonderful! Everything was positive and encouraging unlike the world outside of the course. I always left the sessions feeling enlightened and, at times, amazed myself at what I was able to do. I now feel fully equipped to deal with the outside world and it certainly feels a lot less scarier than it used to. It’s quite amazing how, just changing the way you think, affects the person you are.

...Thank you for the invaluable work you do and all the help you have given me . It has firmly put me onto the path of sexual change of healing...

...Just a big thank you for all your help and understanding - you were really fantastic! I hope this is ‘au revoir’ and not goodbye but either way I remain eternally grateful.

...I was just sitting down the other night thinking how my life had changed after I had stopped coming to your sessions. I have now been with my girlfriend for almost 18 months and we are thinking of moving in together; that's something I would never have thought would be happening to me when I first started the course. You taught me so much about myself and how to be more in control of my own responses and make sex fun for both people. I had a few little problems at the start but kept with the breathing and 'scale of 1 - 10' and didn't let it get me down and now I don't even know I'm doing it. My girlfriend has even said "will you hurry up!" which is something I have never had said to me. It's just a Thank You to David and all the team, I do miss coming a seeing everyone and hope to hear from you soon. Thanks for everything you all did for me.

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